Our Little Guy!

Ok - I thought it might be a good idea to set up this blog for those of you who would like to hear Braden's story. I know many of you allready have been on this journey with us for six months or so and are very familiar with what is happening in our family. We are so thankful for the many, many wonderful friends and family we have surrounding us and praying for Braden's health and for strength for the rest of our family. It is such a blessing for us to be able to count on many of you to be there when we need it the most. Here is a way for us to keep all of you updated at the same time (amazing!!).

I am not sure where to start but I think this is a good beginning...

Our family: Brad and Kristi,
Elyssa (8), Shayna (5), Braden (1)


Braden joined our family last April (so it seems fitting to start this blog in April). He was born five weeks premature, not that we expected anything different as I have always had difficult pregnancies with premature babies. However, the difference between most premature babies and our is that they are Kuik's! For some that says it all! Well, I suppose what I mean is that our babies were all born at good weights for being early. Braden was no exception. He weighed 6lbs 12oz which the doctors were very happy with. He was healthy and doing well so we were home in just a couple of days.

When Braden was about three or four months old we started noticing that he had asthmatic symptoms. Asthma tends to run in the family (Brad and Elyssa both have it). We kept an eye on it and at his next check-up I mentioned it to the doctor. She listened to him and since I mentioned that it had been going on for a while allready she suggested we start Braden on some inhalers. These were just regular inhalers with a mask spacer (no nebulizer) and he took them well. After a number of weeks (?) I mentioned to the doctor that he didn't seem to be making any improvements and that he sounded just as congested and wheezy as before. He had a bark to his cough and we started noticing that he had a hoarse voice when he would cry. I asked the doctor if we should try a nebulizer because maybe he wasn't getting the medication properly via the mask and inhaler. She really didn't think that would make any difference and at that time she started asking a few more questions, like when (what time of day) did he sound the worst, or when did we notice it the most. When I talked to the doctor I told her that I knew this wasn't normal. So many people would ask me what was wrong with him only by listening to his breathing! He sounded "croup" like and had asthmatic symptoms off and on all day long. Of course when I happened to be at the doctors guess what?!? (hint: it's like when you bring your car to the mechanic). Right, so he didn't necessarily have his symptoms on command but I did mention that it was always worse after he drank his bottle and that by the end of the day we couldn't even hold him when he drank his bottle because he seemed so upset and frustrated. He would cough and choke but he did seem better when we would let him sit in a reclined baby seat and drink by himself. Braden was about five and a half months or so at this time.


I guess at this point the doctor must have had her thoughts as to what this was and so she sent us to St.Joseph's Hospital for an upper GI test. I thought it seemed like an overreaction at the time and that she was way overplaying this. (I guess I was concerned but not overly worried). Braden was gaining weight and was a very happy and easy going little baby for the most part. We had the tests done and I basically forgot about them for a few days because when we left St.Joseph's the radiologist gave me the impression that all was well.


About five days later our doctor called us and asked us if we had received a call from anyone yet about Braden's tests. I kind of blanked for a moment and then told her no but the radiologist said that they went well. "Well," she said, "the results came back abnormal". Oh. That shocked me. She proceeded to say that she would like us to take Braden to Children's Hospital for more testing. She knew a very good pulmonologist (lung doctor) there that he could see and she also wanted him to have a VFSS (Video Fluroscopic Swallowing Study) done. She told us then that she believed he was aspirating liquid (formula) into his lungs while he was drinking. At that point the Pulmonology Clinic at Children's was booking appointments two months out and our recommended doctor said to Braden's pediatrician that he could only see him sooner if he had a head CT done first and that it came back clear (meaning no brain tumors). So we then had to book an appointment for Braden at St.Joe's again for a head CT. Our pediatrician is so great and she worked so hard at getting our appointments as quickly as she could so that we would avoid as much waiting for anwers as possible. She made us an appointment a day later for the CT scan and we were given clear results from this test about 24 hours later. We were so thankful that God answered those prayers. I couldn't imagine ever getting the news that your precious little baby has a tumor.

Well, as this seems to be a long story I will recap the next several weeks rather quickly. We went to Children's Hospital and received excellent care. It was indeed a swallowing dysfunction that Braden had and so they suggested starting him on thickened liquids. When that didn't make a difference we proceeded to double thick (like runny pudding). Initially that made an improvement but after a couple of days he started showing his usually signs of aspirating. Choking, and coughing while drinking and wet, congested breathing after. The doctors told us that our next option would be an NG feeding tube. Braden was admitted to St Joe's overnight in December and had his NG tube put in. Of course, he then proceeded to take it out and that is when we were shown a few times how to reinsert the tube. I had a very hard time with the thought of having to put the feeding tube back in and I think I had some very panicky moments at the hospital just thinking of dealing with all of this. Until you are faced with it there isn't much to prepare you for it. Brad reassured me that I wouldn't have to deal with putting Braden's tube back in if I didn't think I could handle it (by the way, putting the tube in is the least pleasant thing about the whole tube feeding). What a wonderful husband I have. He knew how to relieve the pressure I was feeling at that moment and it seemed to make a great difference. It was in those moments that we were reminded that the Lord will only give us what we can handle and so we knew that He would equip us with what we needed to take care of our little guy. God is good and we were so thankful to have Braden home and that so thankful also that he took to his tube feeding really well. The doctor's also started him on a daily 15mg dose of Prevacid because Braden was high risk for descending (drinking) as well as ascending (reflux) aspiration.

Since December we have been back to Children's Hospital once in February (on Valentine's Day) and at that time we were told that they did not see any improvement in Braden's condition. That was very disappointing news as two months of tube feedings had gone by and we assumed that it must be making a difference. Now we know that the difference it was making was that his lungs were being protected and that was the best thing for him. It didn't help that during those two months Braden had numerous bad colds and had some very difficult breathing episodes (which required some Prednisone). We are so thankful for the fact that our insurance covered Synagis shots every 28 days during this time as well and on into March because I do believe that this helped prevent his colds from turning into RSV or phnemonia. He was high risk but now it seems like cold and flu season is coming to an end and we couldn't be happier about that. The Lord has spared Braden and us from any hospital stays this winter, which is a wonderful thing!!

We are now about a week from Braden's next visit to Children's Hospital for another VFSS as well as a visit with the Pulmonologist. We were told last time that if there is still no improvement in his swallow then they are going to put in a G-tube, which is a gastro-intestinal tube surgically put into his stomach. However, if they notice improvement in his swallowing then they would like to leave the NG tube in for another two months with the hope that Braden could be weaned off of it and on to thickened liquids. I have been told that the stomach tube is easy to feed through and nicer in the fact that nobody can see it because it is under his shirt. But with anything new, the unknown seems worse than the known. We are quite used to the new normal of NG tube feeding that this seems like the better option to us. However, like in all things, the Lord knows best and because of that we know He will also give us what we need in all situations.


At this time we ask for your prayers for Braden and for the doctors that are caring for him, for improvement in his condition and ultimately for Braden's restored health. We are thankful to our Heavenly Father for the care He has shown us through these last months and we are assured of His continued care over us and especially over Braden.


That's it for now! A lot longer than I thought it would be :)